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Before We Rush Ahead...

by Krista Franks Co-Founder of Owl & Key
Dec 23, 2025

 

Welcome to Wisdom Wednesdays from Owl & Key

Each week, enjoy a quick guided reflection to help you unlock what's next and bring your Strategic Plan for Life into reality. 

Let's dive in!


 

If you read nothing else here, read this question and then pause for just a moment to consider: 

What are you genuinely celebrating this year?


As we approach the end of the year, it’s easy to slip into hustle mode.
We cram in the holiday hoopla. We sprint toward the finish line. We tell ourselves we’ll rest, reflect or enjoy after we get through it.

We've all seen the posts (or said it ourselves) - “This was such a hard year. I can’t wait for it to be over.”

And in all that noise, we can rush right past something essential:

Gratitude. Reflection. True Celebration.

 

The Power of Pausing


We just wrapped our annual Strategic Planning for Life retreat, and once again, it did not disappoint.

Even after more than a decade of doing this work, I’m continually amazed by what happens when we simply slow down long enough to reflect, connect, and align on what’s next.

But one of my favorite parts?

The celebration.

Real celebration.
Not performative.
Not forced.
Not tied to outcomes or metrics.

Just honest recognition of a life lived.

Even small moments of pause—especially around this simple question—can unlock tremendous joy.


 

(Our annual video to capture the time spent together reflecting, celebrating and planning. Cheers to doing life together, Phil! 💕)

 

Look Back in Reverence


Try it right now. Give yourself a moment to feel the depth of the life you've lived this year.

Think of all that you’ve accomplished.
All that you’ve endured.
All that you’ve overcome.

The love shared.
The hugs given.
The smiles exchanged.
The relationships formed.
The adventures had.
The moments of pain that quietly morphed into beauty.

Life. Was. Lived.

When we reflect, we almost always begin to see it—the beauty woven through the noise. Anxiety softens. Clarity emerges. Gratitude makes itself known.

Sometimes gently.
Sometimes slowly.

 

If This Year Still Feels Heavy


And maybe that doesn’t come easily for you right now.

Maybe this year held some really big things.
Maybe it still feels tender. Or unresolved. Or heavy.

That’s okay.

In time, the heaviness may soften into clarity.
The tension may loosen into hope.
The anger may ease into gentleness.

Because when we look back—when we’re ready—we often see how simple it really was:

We were here.
We showed up.
We loved hard.
We got caught up in life—just as we’re meant to.
And we kept going.

What Actually Matters


At a deep level, we all know this.

We’re human animals navigating a very surface-level game.
And what truly matters isn’t what the world tries to sell us.

It’s the community we keep.
The way we move and care for our bodies.
The simple, ordinary experiences that shape our days.

The world—and our phones—will tell us otherwise.
They’ll insist we’re behind. That we’re lacking. That we haven’t done enough.

And suddenly, it can feel like there’s nothing to celebrate at all.

I know this spiral well. I get stuck in it, too.

An Invitation


So here’s an invitation—for all of us.

Let us celebrate the community we keep.
The care we offer our bodies, minds, and hearts.
The ways we show up for the people we love.

Let us celebrate that we are doing the simple things—every day—to survive and to thrive.

Let us celebrate that we are here.
That we’re showing up.

And that this, in itself, is enough.

Celebrate the challenges.
The peaks and the valleys.
The full, honest picture of a year lived.

Because the truth is this:

If you’re here, reading this, you are thriving.

You are intentional.
Values-aligned.
Purpose-driven.

You lead with kindness.
You care deeply.
You give your all.

And that is worth celebrating.

 

A Quiet Moment for You


Over the next few weeks, I invite you to sit with these questions:

  • What are you celebrating this year?
  • What do you feel proud of—big or small?
  • And for anything that didn’t go as planned… how might it have happened for you?


Carry that energy with you as this year closes and a new one begins. 
Let it shape the way you spend your time.

Allow your answers to help you pioritize your focus and to appreciate what truly matters - to you.

Soak up the micro-moments of joy.
And go slow(er) to really breath it in.

With deep gratitude for your presence here in 2025—thank you. I’m endlessly grateful for this intimate, inspiring community filled with truly incredible humans.

Keep thriving, friends.
You’re living a beautiful life.

With warmth,
Krista

 


Create Your Plan - And Enjoy the Process

 

When you’re ready to set intentions for the year ahead - one that takes all your inner knowing and turns it into the real-life experiences you desire - the Strategic Planning for Life framework is waiting for you. 

Plus a community of others who share this mindset and life approach as well as an abundance of resources and content to support your journey. 

Here’s how you can give yourself, your life, your business, your family, your partnership the gift of intentional time this year and beyond...

 

  • ⭐️🌿 Retreat Experience - Deadline is December 30 (4 spots left) - We are hosting an intimate retreat in Ohio January 16-18. Join us if you want to carve out time for yourself to create your own Strategic Plan for 2026…and want to do it with exceptional humans and fun experiences (think: working by the hearth of a cabin in the woods, bonfires, hikes, saunas, surprises and laughs). 
    • Respond to this email if that’s you, and I'll send you the info.

 

  • 📓 Cozy Up & Do it Solo - Grab a copy of the book. Everything you need to know is included. Take yourself on a date or cozy up by the fire. You’ll be filled up with excitement and have clarity and confidence for what's next. 

 

  • 💼 Start Something of Your Own - This is for you if you dream of starting a business of your own OR your life demands it right now because of other career or financial circumstances. This live program will guide you on how to create the next chapter based on what’s best for your life, your goals and your current conditions.
    • Learn more here and grab your spot. Registration closes January 9. 

 

  • ∞ 1:1 Strategic Partnership & Guidance - I am finalizing my roster of  personal clients for 2026. Together, we build your Intentional 2026 Strategic Plan in early 2026, and then as you run forward, I keep you tethered to your intentions and deepen your clarity throughout the year.
    • This is for you if...
      • You have a lot on your plate as a leader (in life, family and business).
      • You always prefer to have a coach or creative partner by your side to fuel clarity and momentum.
      • You know that you have big change or vision for the year and chapter ahead.
    • Once the last 3 spots are filled, we’ll open the waitlist or pair you with another Expert Guide.
    • Schedule a time to connect and learn more here. 

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